So amazingly my dysthymia personality is a benefit to me. things in my emotions are becoming less light-hearted, more serious and i'm contemplating more.
about a month ago my friend found herself in a serious situation. i immediately felt bound to defend her, filled with anxiety over her situation, but torn due to the situation. With all my self-thought, i've descovered that i'm NOT judge and jury and i dont need to believe her guilt or innocence.
Something i am able to do now that i couldnt fathom one month ago is that i love this friend, and regardless of what transpired, i will support her, listen to her and show advice and help when warranted. That does not mean i need to dive under a bus, and it does NOT mean that i would need to cross any of my boundries to protect her.
The situation is what it is, and i am what i am...a good friend...not a martyr.
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